tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post1778782140896400668..comments2023-11-02T09:29:02.607-04:00Comments on Lost In Holland: How Nice Is Too Nice?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-35087999845936652342009-04-25T13:14:00.000-04:002009-04-25T13:14:00.000-04:00Finding the happy balance...as long as people don'...Finding the happy balance...as long as people don't take kindness for weakness.<br /><br />There's nothing wrong with being nice. What would the world be like without nice people???SE'LAH...https://www.blogger.com/profile/16108031333928082540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-45763347355322910882009-04-23T12:20:00.000-04:002009-04-23T12:20:00.000-04:00I don't think that being "too nice" is a problem u...I don't think that being "too nice" is a problem unless you let yourself get completely used or it's putting you and your family at risk of harm. More people need to be nice!<br /><br />Chun Wong<br />www.newautismcure.com/blogChun Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09583798014645646794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-85086922784459104362009-04-22T23:11:00.000-04:002009-04-22T23:11:00.000-04:00I used to be as nice as you, but middle age has he...I used to be as nice as you, but middle age has helped me be less nice. I like to think I'm still (very) kind, but not so much nice. My husband sounds a LOT like your husband. His boundaries are so clear (rigid) they cut like a knife. He has zero drama in his life, however, so there is something to be said for boundaries.Carrie Wilson Linkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01586157395539583862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-73559563689484772002009-04-21T22:28:00.000-04:002009-04-21T22:28:00.000-04:00I often feel like I'm in the same boat. This "bein...I often feel like I'm in the same boat. This "being nice" business - it's not all it's cracked up to be!Tanya @ TeenAutismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09058742216574076638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-57874089077492453382009-04-21T11:47:00.000-04:002009-04-21T11:47:00.000-04:00Okay, I'm just glad it's the teen down the street....Okay, I'm just glad it's the teen down the street. When I got to the paragraph about talking on the phone, I was convinced you and your husband were talking about me. I could hear him saying (in a very nice voice, of course) "Tell Michelle to STOP calling!" <br />So, as you can see, I'm not really focused on the point of your blog at all. It's me that I'm focused on... AGAIN. WHAT IS MY PROBLEM? IT ALWAYS GETS BACK TO ME! Can you or your husband please diagnose me with something- PLEASE!Do it when you have time, of course. I don't want to step on any toes, let alone have to be removed by a scalpel :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16719689268884062443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-74326554561416030292009-04-20T23:30:00.000-04:002009-04-20T23:30:00.000-04:00Wow now you have me wondering who this girl is, HA...Wow now you have me wondering who this girl is, HAHA! <br />I see your problem with being too nice and then trying to get out of a situation. I have been there. Its very tough. <br />I hope everything works out.BeckyO2001https://www.blogger.com/profile/03323092799226165429noreply@blogger.com