tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post8469125856321637034..comments2023-11-02T09:29:02.607-04:00Comments on Lost In Holland: tHERsDayUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-32670312713663816872012-09-07T09:53:05.319-04:002012-09-07T09:53:05.319-04:00The old saying 'everything happens for a reaso...The old saying 'everything happens for a reason' is something I live by whole heartily. We are continually 'tested' in our lives for a purpose. Without CB, you may not have the opportunity to touch people's lives in the way you strive to advocate for those that need support. This time with CB may just be just the beginning of a whole new age yet to come. All the roles that you play in her life, and we know there are many, has made you the wonderful and caring person that you are. Who knows what the 'unknown' has in store as your beliefs are strong...there is always more.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16183366760449785701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-75416673057066873082012-09-07T08:28:38.276-04:002012-09-07T08:28:38.276-04:00elizabeth - thank you for your sweet words of supp...elizabeth - thank you for your sweet words of support. i know things just happen, but sometimes bc of the fact that i didn't know i was pregnant for over 5 months i think about all the things i did 'wrong' in my naiveté. i know its unproductive to stew in guilt, but even when i think i have in conquered, it bubbles up. i guess thats part of motherhood :)<br /><br />kari - you are such a sweetie - THANK YOU. reading your words made me well up with tears and meant the world :)Alicia Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06244714478310893367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-67224951389914348122012-09-06T23:48:16.568-04:002012-09-06T23:48:16.568-04:00Oh, Alicia. I can't imagine how it must feel t...Oh, Alicia. I can't imagine how it must feel to see your daughter reduced to this but I can ask you to consider one thing:<br /><br />Please look back at the last two decades and see what you've done right. The patient care. The undying love. The effort to find workable solutions for everyone in your household. The integration and inclusion of CB in the lives of everyone who is important to you. I could go on into the myriad of detailed machinations you perform that enable all of your girls to grow up knowing they are loved and cared for, but I suspect you get the idea.<br /><br />Love.kariohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10150537989886423212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077075126044741218.post-26493691395681599422012-09-06T23:46:58.970-04:002012-09-06T23:46:58.970-04:00Oh, dear no. You cannot, you must not have so much...Oh, dear no. You cannot, you must not have so much faith in the current medical/scientific world to think that the answer is you. There is some random mutation, undiscovered, a crappy, shitty bad luck of the draw. That's all. That's all.<br /><br />I hate all of this -- the unknown, the seizures, the endlessness of it all. Like a giant black cloud. But you know it will lift. I hope it lifts soon.<br /><br />Sending love and support and empathy and camaraderie. I'll hold your hand right here in the darkness.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03313726816776097840noreply@blogger.com